Aggression in GirlsWhen people think of a bully, they imagine an older, older boy who picks on younger nerdy boys for their milk money, lunch, etc. . It is a common stereotype because boys are more likely than girls to engage in bullying activities, especially when it involves physical violence (Sheras, 2002, p.25). Bullies come in all shapes, sizes, ages, and even genders. It is less obvious that girls are bullies because our society today sees women as kind and natural people, and it is not like women to engage in aggressive behavior. There is a hidden culture of female aggression in which bullying is epidemic, distinctive and destructive. Girls use backbiting, exclusion, rumors, insults and manipulation to inflict psychological pain on targeted victims. Unlike boys, who tend to bully acquaintances or strangers, girls attack within their own group of friends. This makes identification more difficult and increases harm to victims (Simmons, 2002, p. 3). It is absolutely imperative to learn the signs of aggression and the signs of attackers so that you can know the causes of this phenomenon. . Especially in female aggression, we tend to overlook the obvious. We don't consider girls aggressive, but simply those who do what girls do. But those of us who know firsthand what it's like to be victimized and ostracized by our friends still feel the long-term effects it has on our lives. Bullying among girls is said to reach its peak between the ages of ten and fourteen (Simmons, 2002, p. 4). This adolescent period is characterized by physical, cognitive and socio-emotional changes. During this period, the teenager's relationship with his peers is very important for the support and approval of... halfway... you, it is possible to overcome a bullying situation. You should not consider having to deal with the attackers themselves. Knowing that there is a family there to support you is always a plus. The most important thing to know is that it is not your fault at all if you become a victim of assault. Know that you are not alone in your struggle and know that when it is over you will come out of the situation knowing yourself better and will be able to help others facing the same situation. References Morris, C.G., & Maisto, A.A. (2001) . Understanding psychology (5th ed.). NewJersey: Prentice-Hall, Inc.Sheras, P. & Tippins, S (2002). Your child: bully or victim? : Understanding and ending the tyranny of schoolyards. United States: Skylight PressSimmons, Rachel (2002). WEIRD GIRL OUT: The hidden culture of aggression in girls. United States: Harcourt, Inc.