. Love is not painful. If it hurts, then it is not love, but something other than love. Instead, it could be fear, possessiveness, attachment, insecurities or addiction. Furthermore, it is believed that love drives people crazy. However, love does not drive a person crazy. Instead, it makes them rational or sensible. There is love for affection and love for non-affection. Emotional love is where you love for the right reasons and in the right ways, like a man or woman who loves their partner for who they are. On the other hand, love for the unaffected is love for the wrong reasons. An example is a woman or man in love with a person because of his wealth. This general conception of what love is is often confused by many people. There is no single defined emotional love, but there are many subgroups of love such as brotherly love, puppy love, maternal love, and so on. But the love we will focus on will be the love between two people. Love is not a feeling. Indeed, the truest type of love is selflessness, faithfulness, commitment, reliability, kindness and honesty. True love is different from the definition followed by society. Alternatively, true love is the opposite of society's definition where a person does not need or is not attached to another person, but instead sets both parties in a relationship free; because there is trust, honesty, communication, commitment and so on between them. However, there are conditions where both people must have and implement all these qualities in the relationship, otherwise one would run the risk of being emotionally hurt or heartbroken because the person will feel as if their love is being taken advantage of. of and the person doesn't feel worth...... middle of paper ......and it takes the right amount of infatuation to initiate love and make it gradually transform into true love. There must be more than just feelings for love. Conditional love is love in that the person tries to push the other person to do their best because they care, but strong love, in the sense that it must be earned under certain conditions, is not love. Love means accepting everything and loving a person for the right reasons. Without love, life is empty and useless because people need to be loved to feel safe, trusted, understood, wanted, cared for and so on to experience ultimate happiness and therefore love can lead to this because in love there is jealousy, understanding, care. , affection, reliability, honesty, freedom, satisfaction, etc. Love requires both parties to love each other so that it is balanced and happiness can be long-lasting.